Friday, July 23, 2010
lol. so sorry, i haven blog in exactly one month and one day. Lol.
am busy with rehearsals and stuffs. hahaha.
just to share a thought with all of u.
i realised, friends always come and go. for example, in primary sch u have like 50 friends in sch whom u're realli realli close to, but once u graduate from pri sch, maybe after a yr or two, how many of the friends there will u still contact?
it's the same for any point of life, anywhere, once the mutual activities stop, the meeting up stops, and sooner or later, we distant from each other.
i'm glad that i have a few small grps of ppl who i meet often, i'm thankful for them.
but i guess my new mentality now is not to get too emotionally attached to friends since they'll juz come and go in future. or should i juz stick to enjoy my time to the fullest while with them until the mutual activities stop and wonder to myself why the hell did i forge the friendship in the 1st place if noone bothers to maintain it. rite?
however, this made me realised a point in life, that friends come and go, however the one that's always there is your family. very slow for me to only realised this when i'm approaching 21yo. hahaha, i believe now i'll treasure my family more, they're really starting to get old alrdy.
so yup, once friends start to have their partners in life, we'll distant further apart too. i juz hope that whether or not i get a partner of my own in future, that at least i'll have a few friends to keep close contact to.
it takes a certain amt of effort to maintain a bond, if it's one-sided, then juz slowly forget it bah.
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